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A Room for Myself

Jakarta, Apr 04, 2020

Saturday evening at home, just want to share about what I went through 2 days ago. Cannot be denied, I need more space for myself. Whether it's just for silence, calm down, or do whatever I need to. Its important to take a break, do silence, listen to your intuition, let go some dissapoontment and anger. It is primary need, I think.
Everybody has their ownway to express dissapoinment or anger, may be listen to big volume music, scream out, travelling, writing,  crying, or just need a break,  have a room for my self. When it's been violated, please just understand if I dont feel comfortable. Is very important to get along with family, friends, relatives but there's a time that I need with myself to see what's been achieved so far, to let go when things didn't work as we expect , to forgive oursef when we realize our limit, to think about what can we do to make an improvement of myself. Forgive and congratulate myself for what's has been through. 

I believe everyone who can survive until today means they have certain ability (sometimes we don't realize it). Just believe and keep in mind, God is working so hard on us, we are great no matter what

Happy weekend!

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